Why People Are Always Doing Fighting ?????????????
When
the people in your family are fighting, it's hard to figure out what to do. You
may be feeling sad, ashamed, or
even angry when it
happens. Whatever your feelings are, what you probably want most is for the
fighting to stop.
You're wrong!"
"Be quiet!"
I Am Right .... You Are Wrong ...
"Stop it!"
"I hate you!"
“Why You Always Blame Me .... ??
“Please leave me Alone “
“Its Not Possible To Change My Self “
Please ...... Don’t Tell About That .... .
I Can’t Do It ...
We Are Always Saying Above Kind Of Sentence .... To
Our Family , Friends And Our Colleagues But why we are always saying ????????????
When Your Parents Fight
It
can be pretty tough when your parents or stepparents are
fighting. Remember, even people who love each other fight sometimes. And just
because they fight doesn't mean they're going to stay mad for long or that
they're going to get a divorce.
It's
natural for people who live together and spend a lot of time with each other to
sometimes disagree and lose their tempers. Just think of the last time you and
your brother or sister got into a fight. You didn't really mean all those things you said, did you? In the
end, you probably made up. The same goes for parents.
If you get really upset when your parents fight,
you might want to talk to them about your feelings. Sometimes, parents don't
realize that their arguing makes kids feel upset. If you tell them how you
feel, they'll probably try to stop or at least explain to you why they are
disagreeing.
When we fight, we typically enter the ring with our
child tree. We are angry and we have a loss of control. However, in healthy
fighting, we must say to the child tree, "You have no capacity to help me
here, so you stay behind and I will step forward with my adult tree, the part
of me that can navigate conflict."
We move our attitude from all or nothing to realistically accepting the foibles
and failures of others without trying to convert them. This requires both
planning and empathic communication. Yes, I'm actually telling you to plan your
fight.
Life Is A beautiful Struggle And Fight .... If You Win Then Life Is Your But If You Lose Then Life Is West..
You're wrong!"
If you get really upset when your parents fight,
you might want to talk to them about your feelings. Sometimes, parents don't
realize that their arguing makes kids feel upset. If you tell them how you
feel, they'll probably try to stop or at least explain to you why they are
disagreeing.
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